i know many of the people who always "pull the rope", creating pressure and even enjoying their bad mood and negativeness. it gives them feeling that they are doing something while there was serious problems in their life which they are ignoring, and refusing to do anything about it. some of them enjoy some kind of "martyrdom" they created in their heads. some of them are happy with any kind of attention, even being one whos disliked by everyone because of being jerks all the time. i dont have problems with them, just dont take them seriously, and im not feeding their needs. their opposites are more annoying. .