RE: Why Gentleness and Kindness are not in anything except that they beautifies it
Indeed, you are one of the very few people who I shared this idea with.
Psychology has proven time and time again that a different approach is needed to stimulate people positively in order to motivate them and engage them in positive actions.
It's why I find reason and order in what others find only circle-jerking, if you put together people who want to learn and make money and people with an interest in not only reading, but also educate and sharing knowledge you might have a success story.
Not to mention that some of the people who engage here are people who stroked out at least once, and this is giving them a chance to try again, with more open minds and hearts. Which is beneficial to their education.
There's a lot to be said, but I am glad I find people who think in a similar way. Someone has named this effective altruism and i think it's what conveys the idea best.
I think that together we can raise the kindness bar here by offering effective ways to create communities and less policing and enforcing will be needed. But we have work to do :P
Thanks, @alexdory, I am glad to read your beautiful and sound thought. The importance of psychological articles can never be overlooked and I strongly beleive that we can achieve more together.