Psych101: The Only Reality is the One Our Consciousness Mind Believes In

" Ask a couple of individuals what reality means to them and they will  give you different answers. A reality for each individual is truly  different. What we call individual reality is shaped by our childhood,  experiences, teachers, society, mentors, media, religion, politicians  and many other people and situations.  

 Our conscious mind sees reality as it conforms to its beliefs, biases,  and prejudices. Quantum theory has confirmed that reality is shaped by  what we think is or should be a reality. In essence, in every  interaction with other people, we are creating reality together with  those people and their own beliefs.  

 Our consciousness assumes and what we think is outside reality delivers  to us what is on our inside reality. The only way to change reality is  to change our consciousness, our perceptions, our past beliefs, and  biases.  

  Whenever we have a problem with another individual, that problem is  partly within us and partially with the other individual. It is upon our  shoulders to take responsibility for the issue by examining what it is  within us that we are creating the problem. Are we upset with another  due to some preconceived notion without proof? Are we upset because of  some of other previous personal issue and have taken the wrong path by  letting our frustrations onto others? This isn't to say that we are at  fault for any and all issues in our lives and other people's lives or  for everything in the world; it's just that whatever comes to us in our  lives in our personal interactions has its cause in our consciousness in  part.  

 Being responsible means to be able to respond to the causes within our  consciousness, and then visualizing a positive scenario in our mind  where we have overcome or alleviated the trouble at hand. Our  consciousness can mold reality to what we desire it to be with positive  thought patterns and visualization of our end goal where we have already  achieved what we desired in the first place.  

 If an individual has an issue with their family member over some  personal matter, it would be up to the individual to try and visualize  themselves with their family member as having already reached an  agreement or compromise, and are enjoying one another's company without  any tension and unnecessary mistrust. Feeling that positive outcome in  one's mind changes the aspect of our consciousness which was stuck to a  different concept of reality.  

 The reality is, in fact, our own brain's baby. If you wish for a more  grown up version of reality, you need to conceive another reality within  your consciousness by visualizing and feeling another positive  scenario, an event in your mind. The more vivid the images within your  mind, and the more focused you are on the positive aftermath of anything  you desire to change or overcome the better the result in the outer  reality.  "

 Remember "Reality Bites!" 

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