How to Propose to your dream lady

in #proposal6 years ago

Finally you've found the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. How do you ask her to be yours -- forever?
At this point you need to push your nervousness aside and remember that, once you have a full plan and know what to expect, you'll be able to propose to her without any blunders at any stage.
It's a big step when proposing. Check the step below..

No. 1
You need to make sure she's the one.
This is an important thing to know that you love her and consider her to be "the one". What I mean here is, Write down or think through a list of all the reasons that make you want to marry her. This will be important for expressing your love to her at the proposal, as well as confirming to yourself that you're making the right decision.

No. 2
You need to be sure that she'll say yes. This is, many a times, impossible to predict with 100% accuracy that she'll say yes to you, you should have a pretty strong sense that your girlfriend loves you and wants to spend the rest of her life with you.

No. 3
You need to decide when to propose.
This is also very important in order to get the timing right, and timing is really only something that you can work out. It's not possible to say that there are perfect times to propose, but it is important that you propose at a time when you're not rushed and when you feel calm, sorted, and ready. Once you've planned the proposal in as much detail as possible, then the time will be right. You can possibly propose during her birthday, or on special holiday when you would have all the time with her.

No. 4
You need to decide where you will propose.
Make sure where you want to choose is a romantic place... A beach, a garden etc and also it's very important to know if she loves privacy or she won't feel embarrassed if done in the public..

No. 6
You need to decide how you will propose.
The moment you've decided the when and the where, the next thing to put into consideration is the how. Naturally, there is the ring to produce, but what other elements do you want to add into the mix to make this an especially memorable and romantic occasion for her? Bear in mind that the manner in which you propose will be retold by her many times over, so make sure it's good!

Would write more about it in my next post..
But you can add yours too in the comment box..
Thanks..

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Amazing keep it up.

This is a nice write up. :) I think you missed point #5 though.

Speaking of which, I recently published a massive guide of my own on how to propose: https://adagion.com/how-to-propose/

You might find it interesting. :)

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