Seeking to then try to meet certain conditions so life can be overcome, Someone who feels competent enough resolve the situation depressed will also develop how to give a special response.

The person will try to judge the situation objectively and choose the most appropriate solution among the various solutions that come to mind. After determining the strategy, he will take a certain action and then assess the feedback. Whether the solution's strategy / technique is effective or fails to solve the problem, a change of attitude will still occur.

Protect yourself from the possibility of malfunction and disorganization of psychological functions. each person has an individual way of maintaining the integrity of his personality function, especially when faced with a serious threat from the pressures of his life. How to cope with that kind of pressure is called self-defense orientation. The response is more to defend against the possibility of injury or disturbance of mental balance than solve the problem. Sometimes the pressure of our lives, which psychologically, can actually be useful to stimulate the emergence of the potentials that buried in a person, and stimulate the creation of an intensive process of creativity. Living in a normal situation usually makes people so lazy, less creative and less productive. Not the normal situation that is the problem. But humans do basically need strong stimulants to move. And life pressure is one of those stimulants. if in the context of human tendencies we do not like the pressures of life, then in the context of the development of the soul, we sometimes require the stimulation of life pressure to blow our hidden potentials. Despite the fact that not everyone can succeed through pressure.

Our Anxiety and Pressure can now be a major force that moves in times of resurrection. This is the spring that gives energy to move and move, to stagger as it falls and wakes up, to feel in uncertainty. Nevertheless we move even under pressure. We are all overwhelmed by anxiety and pressure because of the great distance between idealism and reality, between hope and reality. We sense that great distance, become anxious and move our bodies. Perhaps, there are those who do not feel it, so they may not be anxious and do not move. May we be kept away from this. That's the problem. The gap between suffering and the feeling of suffering, and a pressure that ends at an opportunity or a destruction.

The pressures are so overwhelming our lives, which makes us trustworthy people. The previous gallant steps, becoming restrained as if there were no way and another way to reach better achievements in the future. If we are sincere in life and accept everything that happens in this life, then actually a lot of lessons and lessons that we can learn for us more daring to walk. Easily this paper can be transformed into something that is full of gratitude. The problem or problem of life is part and life in the world and no one can evade it. Therefore, let us reflect and face all that makes life for a better life.