Thank you @olawalium for this beautiful write-up.

Pressures are part of our existence, we can never be free from them as long as we are living. Their is no one comfortable enough without wanting more. That's where pressure set in. But like you said, it is always better if we can have an healthy one that is capable of helping us to become the better version of ourselves.

I've know people that behave calmly, wisely and better each time they are under pressure. In fact, their was a man that used to tell me that he think better when under pressure. He said his brain can generate ten answers to a single problem whenever he's under pressure.

Though, not all can be boast of this ability, but learning to handle pressure well is a sign of maturity.

Internal pressure usually aimed at improving us while the external one always end up destroying us. Nobody know you better than you know yourself, if it is not the next on your list, don't allow yourself to be pushed into it, it could lead to you been pressurised unhealthily.

Thank you @olawalium and @communitycoin