Oh I am so sorry, @jaynie. What a sad time for you, and for everyone in his circle. That breaks my heart.

I’m at a bit at a loss for what thought to share, as these kinds of things are just so devastating. But I think everything in this life can be some kind of gift, if we are not hurting too deeply to be open to it. Difficult experiences, losses and even abuse can be the catalyst for becoming better, stronger and more resilient. We must foster hope and forgiveness, make sure we have dreams to believe in, lean on those who care when times are hard, and use challenges as step ladders to better things.