Today I traveled 100 kilometers in the rain, to meet someone on a date, but he did not come, and I did not get him by phone.

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People here are divided into sections in reactions:
1- The first type is waiting to know the reason to take the reaction: find him say that God forbid good inhibitor, if he knows that the person has been injured or something happened to his phone and apologizes to him, he is good and not wrong, and if he knew that the person was not keen to get angry too And lists the obstacles that passed through the road and the dates that were canceled in order to meet this date ... and so ...
2 - The second type: directly angry: and blames and never excuse, and whatever you say to him of the teachings of your answer and does not accept.
3 - the third type: cut his relationship with the person and take it personally and that the lack of respect for the counterparty.
And there are other types ...
I am in such situations never angry, and I wait for an excuse from the opposite side and I often accept it even if it is a woe, and I always have alternatives in the waiting times, such as reading, watching lessons or doing some communication and so on ...
I think life is too short to have time for anger and quarrel ...
If I have a definite interest with the person I spend it and only withdraw from the relationship easily and without noise.
In conclusion, I emphasize two things:
Do not get angry, do not take things personally