The best is teaching a child how to fish and not to give him fish all the time he requests it, else he will not step up to go fishing. you can't give everybody upvotes but you can teach serious and good minded persons how to work hard and then get upvoted in every post and also how to make a quality post and that is exactly what you are doing right now and i am glad you are doing it absolutely well #steemitschool is just excellent and i am glad to be part of it because i want my life to be turn around for good too. and i want to learn how to fish.