You came up to aggressive. And people probably relate more with someone that have been trying and havent yet being successful than to someone that just say to stop complaining. I have worked all my life and always have been trying to improve and get better. Investing in myself to get a better life and do what i really want. Working my ass off to just survive. Right now i am on my way to a job that i dont love. I have fever and i am still going to work because i want something better for me and i need that money to invest in other things that i really love to do. So you should never come that strong before know more about the person life.