Just keep on being you @pappa-pepper and your wee @little-peppers will turn out fine.

You are putting in the one thing that matters to a growing kid - time and effort.
You are showing them the way every day in the way you treat them and @mamma-pepper and how you interact with others.

They are watching you and learning (that not all jelly beans are good jelly beans). Don't underestimate the power of that.

Maybe I'll tell you a story about how that worked out for me sometime. ;-)