So, personally, I chose the "honey" route. I work at a job I actually enjoy, have a good deal of autonomy/freedom, and get paid absolutely bugger all for it (currently), because my employer is basically a startup of sorts.
Quite a few of my friends in the same sector work jobs they hate, get paid way more, and seem to have far lower quality of life.
TL;DR: Quality of life > bank balance.
Honey wins! glad to hear that