That is really beautiful that through your faith you've become less tied to your own kin and broadened your scope/acceptance of people. We need more of you!

I personally believe you are onto something. "Be the change you want to see in the world." No? If you are not particularly expecting anything in return, then I think it works. Once expectation comes into play, that's it, right? Then we're back into desiring for selfish gains, then bound again.