Are we living our life or pretending to be?

Are we all as human's connected?
Are we all as living being connected?
From a third person point. What is good? a living or a dead?
I think that a living can be good and bad with respect to who the third person is. For people from one community the some group of people can easily ignite fire for other community.
Why do some people still believe that what is loud that is true? When sometimes other options are not even heard. There are many people who can't express themselves.
We say good deeds make good people. But do we really know what are the good deeds?

Are we living or surviving?