Maybe you have encountered this before. Something can is holding someone back from seeing the world more accurately, from seeing themselves more accurately, or form understanding the world or themselves better, what they accept may be incorrect, wrong or false. Something could be said to help someone. What you know has helped you, so you try to help them. But then it backfires and a huge conflict emerges. People don't like being told what they accept is false, and especially don't like being told something they do is wrong or immoral.

There is a song by a Guatemalan who says that "a lie that makes you happy is worth more than a truth that makes your life bitter"... Nowadays I have coincided with people who really need to hear that they do everything right, they reject the simple thought of other people for not harming the reality that they have invented and that for them is perfect, I always try to be loyal to my thoughts, that is why I usually say what I feel and think without makeup, but that is why I have earned myself more than one problem, to the point of making the decision to stay away from people who close to see beyond their nose.