If a person truly believes that they are in total control of their own destiny I believe that they are grossly mistaken.
I now believe that everything is by divine plan and, whilst we have freewill to divert or diddle with the details, ultimately life plays out to form.
These days I strive to go with the flow even when it feels uncomfortable.
Great piece ~ thanks for kicking my mind into gear!
:)
(Would welcome your thoughts over at mine if you find you have a spare mo ~ not that I'm trying to control you! ;)