Life harmony. 6 of the rules
In order to find the harmony of life and peace of mind you need to adhere to certain principles, and more specifically, the 6 rules.
1. Selection rule.
Realize and accept that all situations and everything that happens in your life is no more than your own choice. Based on your feelings and feelings, you choose the road and direction, and this is your life. Therefore, to make a claim to someone about the fact that you have something did not work or your life is not as you imagined, it is at least stupid and irresponsible. You write your own book, your life story.
2. The rule of the mirror.
The people around you are your reflection, as well as a reflection of your actions and actions. If someone talks rudely with you or considered your opinion, look first at yourself, not are you being this way, and only then, talk about it to another person.
3. Error rule.
You should be aware that your opinion or actions are not perfect and are not always correct. Everyone has every right to their own opinion, and it does not have to be the same as yours. So understand that excessive confidence in their own right will soon lead only to disappointment.
4. The rule of responsibility.
There are people who always find excuses and blame other people for their failures. You're not one of those people? You can get up every day early, positively starting the morning and go forward, achieving new goals. Responsibility for your own life, as well as its quality, are only you and no one else.
5. Here and now.
The rule of presence. Do not live in the past time, it will take you a lot of strength and energy, it is already there and nothing will change. Also, you do not need to live and the future, because it has not yet come. For a successful and happy future, you can now start to do any actions and actions. So learn to live in the present, appreciate every moment, because, unfortunately, it will not happen again, there can be only a lot of similar moments, but it is another.
6. Correspondence rule.
We need to understand one very interesting thing, what we have now, we deserve. Do not blame the boss that he does not give you a raise, so you have not shown yourself as a professional or may need to change jobs. Being a miserable person is only a habit, not a state of life in the present. Therefore, if you want to live better, make it a rule to be a happy person, radiate joy and good.
Thanks, @ivser for a great post. I think it can be summed up that we are all reasponsible for our own lives. Each one of us is a sum total of every decision we have made both good and bad.
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