Since childhood, parents have inspired us that happiness with money will appear, and you can consider yourself a person held only after receiving a prestigious education and finding a prestigious job. But now we are adults and are well aware that money, happiness and everything else will appear only if you find a case to your liking. This search is worth doing.

In fact, as children, we knew quite well what we like to do, but the parents inspired a very different attitude and now we are afraid to admit to ourselves what we really want to do. Some even feel ashamed to tell you I wanted to be in childhood. And for good reason. Before to find work for everyone, remember he had dreamed: there, in dreams, is the key.

Express method

To understand what you should do, think about what you would do if you have to live a maximum of one year, that is, nothing to lose... And think about whether there is a business that you could be happy to do for free. Perhaps this is the calling. But there is an important point: before you find your favorite thing (or try) in this way, it would be good to relax, otherwise all thoughts will be only about lying on the couch. So, it is better to resort to such thoughts on vacation, preferably in nature, and not among the everyday life on a boring and unloved work...there are other methods.

Draw

But not a self-portrait to make sure of his talent, and a table of three columns. In the first recorded that you have better things to do. In the second - what do you like to do the most. In the third note the best classes of those that you like the most. Also think about what you could do for the soul and not getting any money for it. The answer must be found in the third column of the list. See if there's something that's present in all three columns. Actually, the business of your life in front of you, and if you reach it a lot of skill, you can and receive a reward.

Go for a walk

When we move, the course of our thoughts and worldview changes in the right direction.

Think about your problems "with someone else's bell tower»

Imagine in your mind a good friend (or just a wise person) giving you advice about your favorite thing. So you can get answers to a lot of your questions. And if you want, you can ask a third-party person or a good friend about what is so exciting

Change your hobby

I want to believe that you have the same hobby that you live all your free time. But it is better to be open to new experiences, trying a variety of interesting activities and breaking their comfort zone. Anyway, try to try new things. So, there is a history when the girl, running away from crisis, changed activity of the teacher for work of the housekeeper. One day the hostess asked the girl to make up her and do the styling. It turned out very nice, and she realized that to make people more beautiful – it's her. As it turned out, at this time in the employment center was a set of free courses for hairdressers and makeup artists. Everything was decided by itself…

Ask well those who are already engaged in your favorite business

This is a method of modeling. If you suspect that you have come to the end of the search for yourself, you can start to count your capabilities.

Use your fantasy

Try to paint a picture of your activities with all your senses. We all perceive with their help, so it will be easier for you to understand how your favorite thing will look like and will benefit others, and you personally - peace of mind and comfort in the shower.

Come up with your own definition for success

Find your own answer to the question, what is to be successful. Perhaps this will help you to discover new facets of their desires. Do not forget to fix the definition in your diary or success log.

Think about how would you act in your place a child of seven years

Small children throw away any templates, and are subject only to the true values. That's how the child's psyche works. This will also help your thoughts to direct to your desires.

Live positive

This will not only help to move forward, but also will get rid of memories of the negative experience of the past, and thus help in achieving its goal.

Focus on finding your favorite activity

You don't need to get too hung up, of course, but always keep it in mind. To start the action faster, you can hang a poster in your room. The main thing that he motivated.

Motivate yourself from the opposite

What's the meaning of that? Just make a list of everything you lose if you don't find your favorite thing. The exercise is not the easiest, but it can make you move forward.

Make a rough action plan

Perhaps you do not yet know how to realize your dream, but it will be easier to focus on the search.

Look at yourself from the side

Imagine that you are already engaged in your business. How will you feel about it? Who will surround you? Where will you be staying? How will it all look like? You can also think to move forward and write a letter to yourself about what you should do this year.

Brainstorming

For thirty minutes, try to write everything you think about your favorite business. Just without stopping to write all your thoughts about your life, preferably on a separate sheet, and in the notebook or diary success. With limited time, the brain works faster, and more productive.

What would you do in the next minute?

Now a couple of minutes to work out a simple physical education and write down the idea that came to mind after them. This moment you get a lot of endorphins, and it stimulates the brain.

Open the dictionary

On any page and read any word as well as an explanation to it. Maybe this is where the clue is.

Think about what will happen if you do not take risks

Such thoughts will help you to evaluate everything and for the sake of the business of life to take the risk. It is better to start with the worst case scenario.

And one more important point. A person who has not found happiness in himself will never find a case to his liking.