Hate Of Others - Ep1 : how to make others hate you ? following these 3 important things ...

There are some mistakes in which people get to automatically acquire hatred of others. The problem is that this hatred is difficult to address, because it will turn into a general impression. So what is it ?

• There are many reasons that may make you easily hate others, whether you mean it or not. But what we have to talk about before we mention these reasons is that the gain of hatred of others is the worst curse that can be inflicted on humans. This is because human relations are the basic foundation of the normal psychological state of man. Hence, dear reader must understand that any of the following reasons must be avoided so as not to gain hatred of people. And I want to make one more important thing, that it is impossible to gain the love of all people. Because there are some people who will hate you even if you are very good. But the truth is that you are at least not hated by all people. Do not be bad in the sense of the word, do not give the right to others to hate you. But make your dealings with all men, He who defends you before your enemies. Fight hatred with good and love. Believe me if you are designed to ignore people and deal with them in ways that gain their hatred, your life sooner or later will turn into a life hell that you can not escape
  
  1/ Pride and vanity (transcendence) : In principle there is a difference between pride and vanity, and I do not want to confuse them. But both fall under the heading of transcendence. But at this point I will try to be detailed so I explained to you how to handle each order on my own, not to confuse pride and vanity. We will begin with pride, which is to deal with others with a higher or transcendent logic. In the sense that you see yourself higher than before you, speak to him in a way that shows him that he is less than you. Not only that, but pride makes a person up to the stage that he does not need others, and considers that no one deserves to befriend him or sit with him or deal with him. And makes this person an exploitative person, because the truth that no one can do without others. You find such a person does not respect the emotional relationship, for example, only exploits the partner no more and no less. Vanity is another type of transcendence, but it is effective in gaining hatred of others. It is about seeing a person for himself and not seeing others. He thinks he can do anything easily. He's smarter than his friends, he's sweeter than his partner, or he does not need to go and look for work, but the job has to look for him. Therefore you find like a person earning hatred of others once he has confessed with people in doing something. Because he often sees that there is no such thing in this world. Which is also known as narcissism. So dear reader always try to deal with people around you by your nature. Do not underestimate them and do not raise your business, even if you see someone trying to transcend you, do not deal with him so as not to be with him and become arrogant like him. Because transcendence is generally one of the most common  psychological diseases among people, do not make a disease that controls you even though you can control it voluntarily.   

2/ Do not take responsibility :Many people do not have a sense of responsibility, which makes them acquire hatred of others around them, and unwillingness to deal with them. For a simple reason, because someone is not always appropriate. If it were to be held accountable, it would be irresponsible. Not only that but will begin to blame others and circumstances. And will not recognize his mistake because he can not even bear the responsibility of his mistake. In marriage, too, it becomes deplorable if the man or the woman, one of them is irresponsible and does not treat the family on this basis. Because the man will then become a hated person and his wife will not feel safe with him, nor his children. But will be a stumbling block in the education of his children and children, and will not help, especially if the irresponsibility of responsibility reaches the material stage, and waste his money in trivial things just to feel happy. While his children and his wife need these funds. On the other hand, the wife must take responsibility for her home and her husband and meet the demands, and understand very well that this is part of her role in life and her basic function as a mother and wife

3/ Very scornful : The stingy person obsesses others easily and without effort. Because a person who is a scoundrel is often not only physically stingy but emotionally stingy, and stingy about everything about natural human giving. Therefore it is often a person who takes and does not give, he just wants to take everything for himself. And this excessive selfishness makes everyone around him see him as shabby and fluffy, and make them alienate him. Because anyone who seeks a normal relationship with humans depends on the balance between giving and giving in a respectful way. But the miser does not know the balance, but he is an extreme person in a very ugly way. Not only does he get the hatred of other ordinary people, but he also acquires the hatred of his family, whether he is a man or a woman, both of whom will acquire a distorted image of their children. They will always look at their children with scorn because they see that they did not give them what they deserved

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