It's when our activities are in unison with our thoughts and emotions that we become the conscious creators that we were born to be.

I agree. We can see this in unwanted children/relationship cases. We can all be creators of people and things, but consciousness or, more importantly, harmony with that creation comes with the alignment of the 3 elements you mention.
I found it interesting that you mention nature and the amount of sex that happens in it as a mirror we should look at and how ourunwillingness or inability to deal with sex in natural ways may be one of our major problems. I wonder if anyone has even conducted a serious experiment with a community of humans conducting themselves and their future offsprings in more natural ways, without the social conventions and constraints that make our dealing with sexuality such a complicated matter.