I've enjoyed many of Stephans talks over the years but many have left me in awe at how he glazes over or ignores important factors, I'm not sure what you mean by SJW?

and yes like almost every animal on this planet the female usually picks the "stronger" genes, so many times thing's like compassion etc are seen as secondary traits, they will overlook the fact that their chosen partner may be an asshole to the rest of the world as long as they feel they will be protected and provided for... as the dynamic changes over the generations and more women take responsibilities of their own futures that may change to where they wont shy away from loving "non alpha" males more and more.

I am not a "bread winner" and realised at a young age that most women like me for a good time and love me as a friend but are smart enough to realise that I have no interest in competing with the world to secure a home and a "stable future". Maybe if I had a child in my 20's that would have changed but I didn't. lol I'm open to finding a woman that has secured her own place in this world Ha I have no issues with my partner being the bread winner. I am also fine (or have made my peace) with being alone, although of course I would rather find someone. lol the last thing I'd do is get mad and blame the world or others for who I am and choices I've made.

Cheers, and thanks for your input