TO LOVE AND BE HURT OR NEVER LOVE AT ALL
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Love is the most powerful emotion that every human can have. It has the ability to either destroy or create something new. Why do I say so? When you are in love, you can unleash all the goodness inside of you. The willingness to sacrifice your own happiness and even your life will come out naturally. On the other hand, it can also be the root of evilness once you are broken. The goodness will turn into a deep madness that can lead to revenge. You become irrational in your decisions thinking that if you can’t get him, then no one will have him at all. It is like, "Love me back or I will dig your graveyard".
There are people that will rather choose to stay alone than to be with someone else. They are afraid to experience the rejections and betrayals that they commonly see in movies, social media, and stories from their friends. As a result, their attention will fall into other things such as serving the Lord, love for pets, gardening, charity, volunteering, and anything that can make them avoid the attraction for a single person. At the end of the day, we are not in the position to judge their choices. Maybe these are what they really want in life and we must respect it.
When you are in love, you are giving him not only the right to complete you but also the power to break you into pieces. Love teaches us to believe in faithfulness in this world full of disloyalty. It is like giving him a knife but trusted him not to stab you while you are sleeping. The most harrowing part of betrayals is not the wound created by those stabs, it is the fact that he chooses to disappoint you. This kind of cut can’t be healed by any surgical operations. The time heals the pain but the memories will always remain. The person behind your laughter is the same man behind your suffering. Ironic, isn’t it?
Everyone deserves another chance if he admits his mistakes sincerely and asks for forgiveness. It is said that love is about accepting the flaws of your partner but be careful, it can blind your eyes. There’s a difference between accepting and tolerating the imperfections. Cheating is forgivable if he promises not to do it again and fulfill it. However, it is considered unacceptable if he doesn’t keep his words and the cheating became habitual. Don’t be blinded by his broken promises, it’s time to wake yourself up from the lies.
Despite the heartbreaks that love can give, I’ll still choose to love and be hurt rather than not loving at all. I believe that if someone can dance like nobody is watching, it is also possible to love like you’ve never been hurt before. Yes, it can be very painful but once you moved on, those scars will make you stronger and wiser. Love is an essential ingredient to make your life more meaningful and it can make you a better person as well. You are the writer of your own love story; find someone worth the pages of your book.
Philosophy in life worth pondering:
- One life to live, Real Life is hardcore
- DOING THE RIGHT THINGS OR DOING THE THINGS RIGHT
- DOES TRUTH NEEDS EVIDENCE
- THE FEAR OF LOSING WHAT YOU NEVER HAD
- WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO OWN YOUR EMOTIONS? @ecotrain QOTW
Love is like a gambling your feelings towards to special someone you love. There's no such thing in this world have a perfect relationships. But the important is that you experience how to love and be love. If person hurt you're feelings in the future,will its is part of relationships . We are humans. We intitled to experience being hurt because it is the reality. Love is not only a bed of roses. Sometimes it needs a sacrifice. To make relationship grow. Time willl heal and all the hurts will be erase.The important thing is you must learn to forgive and let go. But before you will make a decision. You must think it twice. Think the happy moments you shared together for the past months or years. And Ask yourself that you truly love that person for not being a perfect girlfriend or boyfriend. You must understand that love is all matters most. Being hurt is part of relationships. We must Deal with it. And just listen to each other and dont easily give up to your relationship. Life is so short. Give all the best in your love life. You must solve the problem right away,don't wait for tomorrow to settle all your misunderstanding to each other. Good communication is the key for make relationships last for a life time. Love you're partner as your most 1st priority in your life.
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Mrblu
These are beautiful and inspiring words!
I agree with you sir, love is not about happy moments. We must also learn to accept that no one is perfect, even the relationships are unperfect.
If there are misunderstandings, both should lower their pride and fix it. It's better to lose our pride for someone we love than to lose our love because of our pride.
May the God bless your whole family.
Thank you so much sir for sharing your thoughts with us. :)
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Love .. hurt.. love again!!
Nice message..
Never stop loving! :)
Blessings!
True !!❤️❤️❤️
True love, whose source of depth is born twice
It should not be two, born in our depths suddenly - without choosing - grow up and grow with us every day, and it is only one woman
There is no room for doubt or confusion with certainty
Love, whose source of depth never dies, and that the beloved dies and disappears from the sight of his beloved under the dust, remains his traces!
♥
Love is the best feeling in the world.
It is painful sometimes, but it is still the happiest feeling to have.
May you find your true love, my friend. :)
True words ... very important message.
Thanks so much for appreciating it. :)