" Don't Die Before Your Death! Journey To Be The Self "

Some words are left unsaid and some works are left undone. Some friends are left unknown and some people are were trouble knowing. But every incident that happened in my life was able to make me the person who I am. Life made me able to fight with every problem. Sometimes I think now there is nothing left. I cant face anything. Further came many things in my life bad or good moments which no one could buy. Bad moments taught me to be strong and the good ones encouraged me to face those bad moments.

I must say the journey to the self till date was no less than a serial. Many people showed sympathy, many laughed at me. Some people wanted to get benefit from my condition and wanted to get closer saying they they care for me. I got to learn hoe people can be according to the time. They say time changes everything but some thoughts, some mentality never changes unless it comes about life and death.

Every people around us are selfish. They are with you until you have power otherwise no one would stay around with selfless heart. And i again thought, how can a family member be selfish? How can a friend be selfish? But i realize later situation and condition make everyone in this world live for themselves. No one thinks for other before they develop individually. When it comes about parents care goes opposite. They can die for their child, I guess.

It is not compulsory for everyone to be selfish, after all it's your choice. What you choose to be a selfless soul or self- concerned one. Life was never easy. Nor it will be. But the lesson it has taught or will teach make a simple human being, a human provided the lessons are gained keeping positive view and being optimistic. when you lose, when you are done with life, when you are fade up with the faces around, when you feel like there is nothing left, it is a new beginning. Just move a few steps ahead, you will find your path. Keep on pushing down but to find yourself, you have to get up and start moving again. We may get degrees, we may be a gold medalist, a university's topper. But it's all worthless if we fail in the exam that life takes. It's all worthless if your don't get up again to fight with the obstacles that life has left you with.

On the way to be yourself you should believe in yourself. I learnt not to expect from others. It's only you who can make yourself what you want to be. Only you can take yourself wherever you want to go. Now, after knowing the self, and knowing what life can put in front of us all, I have to say it's time to get out of your self and think of the society you live in. Some are not strong enough to face those problems. My dad was with me, my mother's lessons and experiences she shared with me. My friends were with me with a selfless heart, so I was able to be the self. Likewise, I want to be the there for those who need someone who cares because sometime love from a single person can change the whole life when all others are against you.

I just want to say in our country many children have become victim of the traditional thoughts, many have been victimized by the culture and practices of the society and the norms and values are degrading day by day. It's time to gossiping about others life. It's time to be selfless and make great nation where everyone could know their importance and no one would question themselves why they were born. Let's get out of our silly thoughts, our sick mentality and now let's make ourselves and the nation, but being together.

The real happiness doesn't lies in money, success or fame. Be kind to yourself then only you can be kind to others. Someones absence makes you a better person. Cherish the absence. The breath that you just take it is blessing. Embrace it. There are so many people dreaming to live their life that you are living right now. You don't have idea. Embrace each and every breadth you are taking. Celebrate your life. Live it. I would like to share some words that i have always been following. I hope it will give a slight help in your life to be a better person.

Live Your Life Fully!
Be Kind To Yourself!
Never Give Up!
Love Yourself and Spread That Love!
Be Gratitude, Be Alive and Live Every Moment!

Thank you for your time!
@bindu