Both are important and represent two different aspects of how one is to live , behave and perform .

My idea was not to change "To do" into "To treat". It was to change "you" into "they". So instead of performing actions towards others according to how you want, you perform actions according to how they want. Instead of behaving towards others how you want, you behave according to how they want.

I suppose my post was not very clear. That's my fault.