The first step in personal development

Most of us know that psychology is the science that deals with psyche analysis, more precisely analyzes its own behavioral, temperamental and psychological cognitive and affective processes.
As it turns out, psychology is a fairly complex field, but also a basic one, where each person should spend at least some time in life studying this field.
Not just for the simple fact that we should have extra knowledge, but also for the fact that this science helps you to know yourself, helps you to form your own personality and to look at things from your perspective, without you still need to let yourself be manipulated by the concepts of those around you.
I do not say that it is not good to listen to the opinions of others, but as an individual, you certainly want that in this life to depend only on you, to touch both your financial independence and your mental and spiritual independence and so you can do it of your own personality, of the right concepts that you can rely on.
The most interesting part is that since I started studying psychology, I have known all sorts of people who went on the idea that they are perfect, or possibly superior to other categories of people, if they have a solid foundation in a field. And now comes the question, with what purpose do you learn, experience and accumulate so much knowledge in a field if you think so? to see others inferior to you? ........
I think of my stance, if I could, for example, have a conversation with Paul Ekman, the discoverer of microexpression and an expert in synergy, and I would see that he treats me in a superior form, automatically that my first impression would be that a conceited man. In fact, who can tell me that it would not be like anyone?
Just as the psyche is based on permanent automatisms, it is perfectly normal that in different situations with a common problem we have common reactions.
This topic is quite long and difficult to debate, and I will write several articles in the near future about how to think, how to react in certain situations, and how to achieve self-control and shape a person as accurately as possible more inherent to both us and the others.
What I will be discussing in this blog will generally focus on human behavior, I will talk about non-verbal language, individual gesture and I will try to develop this issue as much as possible in both the theoretical and practical understanding of this science .
I will discuss development in communication, effective methods to capture and keep an individual's attention, solving verbal jamming in a conversation, mastering a conversation as professionally as possible, regardless of personality in front of you and other communication concepts.
I will also discuss a less developed field of what I have seen in Romania, namely synergy, which is the science that deals with the study of micro-expressions of the face, which helps to distinguish the truth of lies, but also to know what emotion it feels an individual at the time of a conversation. I assume that every individual would like to know what a person feels when they are in contact, so you know exactly what to say, you know exactly when to change the subject, do not worry about what you are talking about and help you to know it in far greater numbers than going on the idea if it is what the individual says.
Anyone can access these theoretical teachings, but it takes a lot of time, diligence, calmness and much ambition to develop from this point of view, until you form and practice these teachings. I can not be wrong when I start studying psychology , and I began to analyze people as they talk, how they move, how I feel, it has been very difficult for me to develop that distributive attention from the point of view of human behavior and the power to receive these attributes specific to individuals. I'm not perfect in reading people, you probably can not read a 100% perfect man, but you can certainly interpret what she feels, what she's gesturing and what she's going to say, and that helps you a lot more than you know nothing.
Both me and most individuals, if we are good at analyzing, I do not think it is enough to know only ourselves, to perfect ourselves in one field, and simply to win our bread from what we know to practice with the impression that we already know enough.
You can never say that you know too much or enough of the rhythm of how the world is evolving, and the rapidity of changing the thinking mechanisms. In conclusion, you have two possibilities, you choose to be in constant personal knowledge and development or choose to stay in place and not - you never know the real potential.
No blog writer, no matter how it writes about personal development, business, cooking or whatever, can not say that it is perfect in that area, but certainly can say that it has the necessary experience to practice that profession or profession.
That's how things go with this personal development, no one is born with it, and no one has a perfect personality, but one that chooses each individual in the party is that he can decide at any time to develop a personality, acquire experience and knowledge about your own offspring, so it's just your decision to choose from, but always think twice when choosing to look at both the benefits and the disadvantages.
I mention this article, so as not to be misunderstood because I am not the creator of these sciences, and I do not authorize anything from what science has already shown. I will only present in a logical and simplistic manner certain themes and concepts precisely to understand each reader individually.
Having said that, I will go to work, and I pray that any point of view related to blog, articles, writing, thinking, will be written both in comments and in private. It helps me a lot to see where I'm wrong and to see what needs to be changed.

I greet you,
Bogdan.