Definition of personality

The meaning of the meaning of the word “persona” comes from the Latin word (persona), which means the mask that the actors in the Greek theaters wore on their faces to perform the roles, so the real person i.e. the actor was hiding behind this mask to perform a certain role, and consequently, the effect in the souls of others of the role or scene shown On the stage, it is possible to define the personality from the psychological point of view as the sum of the phenomena and behavioral characteristics that are unique to a person, and which is distinguished from others, and also includes the individual's reactions to the various stimuli to reach the stage of adjustment, that is, it is the integrated system that includes all aspects Common to the individual, such as tendencies, emotions and impulses, and others.

Personal styles

A person is born and with whom he generates his personal components from the genetic characteristics and innate preparations, all of which represent the special personality unique to the individual. Trying to anticipate individual responses in a specific situation, and thus to gain a general idea of ​​the behavioral patterns in which it will be printed and its interactions in the future.

Character styles and how to deal with them

The process of classifying human personalities into personal patterns, analyzing and studying them provides the opportunity for the individual to get to know himself and himself and others around him, and thus the important knowledge of the capabilities, preparations, competencies and needs that are understood and met in appropriate ways; it opens the doors of success for the individual, in addition to knowing and achieving the self, As there is a clear relationship between the personality of the individual and his inclinations and trends, and therefore knowledge of the academic, scientific, and functional life areas appropriate to each type separately, and given the importance of this field and the large number of researchers in it, its classifications differed according to the direction of the researcher in it.

Psychology has divided the personalities according to their internal interactions, such as the psychopathic, masochistic, sadistic, and others, and there is a classification of Myers Briggs and Chrissy that made the personality of man sixteen patterns of human personalities, and many other classifications that differed according to different scholars, and the characteristics of these patterns may differ Personality of different degrees and intensity, it may be simple and slight that does not negatively affect the course of an individual's life, and it may be severe and severe so that it is diagnosed as a personality disorder, or psychological disorders, and one of the simple and close classifications of daily life will be presented in the form The following:

Suspicious or skeptical personality

It is the character overwhelmed by mistrust and extreme caution towards others, and this characteristic is characterized by the following:

• Tracking the causes and manifestations of accidents, and trying to link them to each other continuously, in a strange and suspicious manner, so he is in a constant state of tension and extreme caution while dealing with others.
  His self-confidence is often low, in addition to his lack of confidence in others, and his constant demand for those around him to be fully confident in him in all cases.
• Facing many difficulties when he needs to make a specific decision, and extreme hesitation in all his conditions.
• Living in a circle of lack of loyalty around him, and the possibility of being betrayed and betrayed at any time, so he is motivated and always mindful of the possibility of a conspiracy being hatched against him.
• He is often a heartless person who does not understand the feelings and emotions of others, and does not forget their mistakes.

This personality can be dealt with through the following points:

• Frankness and clarity in most transactions in order to avoid stirring suspicion in himself without exaggerating it, and providing logical evidence that denies cases of suspicion and mistrust that he lives towards others.
• Trying to give others room to increase their confidence in him.
• Listen carefully and carefully to others.

The naive character

Characterized by this style of characters:

• Blind confidence in people without distinguishing between those who deserve this trust and those who do not deserve it, and not expecting badness and harm from people.
• Not realizing the important opportunities available in his surroundings, and neglecting to pay attention to them.
• To be completely submissive to others, so that the individual is conducting intellectually and behaviorally, in addition to the speed of conviction of the opinions of others, and the rapid relinquishment of personal opinions and trends.
• Excessive forgiveness when exposed to abuse and error permanently and continuously without relying on a moral or religious principle, and accepting observations and criticisms, even if they are unfair and incorrect.
• Always speaking is frankly not desirable and exaggerated, which gives the individual an unwanted image.

It is recommended to deal with it in the following ways:

• It is better to expose the owners of this character to new experiences and experiences, and entrust him with some difficult tasks and encourage their performance, and bring out the full capabilities and capabilities.
• Not to interfere in the details of his life, and help him rely on himself gradually by expanding his horizons by reading and culture, and trying to change his environment, and merging him with a more effective and influencing environment in him.
• Helping him to discover himself, his abilities and talents, to become an accomplished individual, confident in himself.

Cruel personality

This characteristic distinguishes the following:

• It is a character characterized by toughness and cruelty towards others and sometimes towards the self.
• Clinging to strong opinion and stubbornness, and turning every discussion that takes place into prolonged debate, so that the personal point of view will be proven.
• He is a person who is not listening, and does not listen to someone else's speech, in order not to allow anyone else to prove himself.
• No confidence in others and always suspicious of those around him.

It can be dealt with in the following ways:

• Try to control nerves and be calm when talking to him in any matter.
• Do not expect to exchange emotions around him, or express them, or immediate response, and meet the request of others.
• When there is a need to engage in a specific discussion with him, the words must be carefully chosen, and to avoid using the provocative method.
• Stay away and withdraw from the discussion with him in the event of resorting to defamation, and the use of rude and cruel words, and to show ignorance and lack of sympathy, and avoid blaming him; so that he does not use this blame to attack again.

Emotional personality

This character is distinguished by the following:

• This characteristic is characterized by sensitivity and strong emotion, so that this emotion affects the individual, and controls him during the process of making important decisions.
• This character succeeds in winning others because she is interested in the feelings and feelings of those around her.
• Quitting quietly from different situations while avoiding insulting others around him, in addition to the desire to meet and attend social events.
• Caring for others and trying to satisfy them, and this character is dominated by kindness, softness and tenderness, and avoids disagreements and disputes, and it is also possible to hurt a person's emotional feeling easily.

This pattern can be dealt with through the following methods:

• Stay away from ambiguity and the limit in dealing, listening and listening and showing interest during the conversation, and avoid the authoritarian and cruel style while talking to him, so as not to lose confidence in others.
• Not coercion and compulsion to carry out a specific task, or achieve a specific goal in an immediate and rapid manner.
• Show interest in him and his feelings, and speak to him with close personal words that touch his heart and his passion.