A person of solid character
The events they encounter from their childhood affect the development of people's personalities in many ways. Sometimes difficulties and troubles, sometimes diseases, deaths, sometimes the increase in blessings and achievements mature people's personalities. In this way, a personality change that becomes more positive with time and events is a good blessing for people.
However, there are also 'personality plays', which are caused by people's lack of personality. However, there is no continuous improvement in the changes arising from these changes. The main feature that draws attention is simply that the personality is constantly changing.
Any event, big or small, ordinary or important, that can be experienced in a person's life can affect the personality of such people. Whether the weather is rainy, dark, gloomy, snowy, rainy or sunny on a day; The fact that they did not get enough sleep or eat the food they wanted one day, or an emotional movie they watched on TV the next day, may cause that person's character to change that day. Likewise, an event they experienced at their workplace that day or a situation that they describe as a setback causes them to take on a completely different character. He can be suddenly happy for one reason, suddenly sad for another reason; They may remain under the influence of these feelings for days or weeks.
It is impossible to have any idea about how and when their personalities will change. A person who has known that person for years thinks that he will always see the person he has known when he meets him, but it is as if he has met a brand new person whom he has almost never met. This person, who always welcomes a joke made to him with cheerfulness and levity, may one day respond to jokes made out of nowhere, with irritability and irritability. Or, this person who helps with sacrifice every time he is asked for help may one day meet such a request with displeasure and reluctance. While he is always very fast, hardworking and responsible, one day he may become indifferent, irresponsible and indifferent. In short, one day to another; one watch does not fit one hour. Since it is not possible to predict these changes, people who make friends with these people constantly encounter surprise personalities.
This variable personality pattern displayed by such people is extremely disturbing. Because one of the most important characteristics of a reliable person is the solidity of his character. This can only be possible if a person has faith. A person of solid character, regardless of the circumstances; no matter what difficulties or what blessings they face, he never compromises on his personality traits. If such people are loyal, they are always loyal. If they are altruistic, they are always altruistic. If they are reliable, they are always reliable. Neither the weather conditions, nor the seasonal changes, nor the successes they have achieved, nor the difficulties they have experienced can affect the mood of these people that day. Because believers shape their personalities according to the book. And since they always aim to live by the moral values of the book in the most perfect way, they do not change this morality according to the day or the hour.
The measure that people should take for themselves in this regard is this: Do they want to be close friends and friends with a person whose personality is constantly changing, who does not fit every day, who can show a surprise attitude every hour of every day? Of course, no one wants to face such a situation. Every person wants to have a person they can trust, be sure to know, know when to do and how to react.