Really well put Sarah. I have seen so many of my friends in their early 20's settle down to have kids because they feel its the right thing to do... Either because their parents did it or they are scared they won't be able to in 10 years time (which is just not true) and I can tell it has inhibited some areas of their life (travel/career).

I don't think they made the wrong choice, I just think it would have been better if they had weighed all this up in the first place as opposed to settling down fast because they think they have to.

I feel like I'll never have kids... But I get the same lines of "wait till your older, you'll change your mind". Let's wait and see :)