Advertise your standard for choosing a partner, not just the dowry you are willing to
The best woman is the easiest (lightest) gift. So, understand women when you are asked how much dowry you want, don't just ask because your candidates are running, but think wisely.
Because it is supposed to be a woman it is not expensive in the dowry, but it is expensive to determine who the priest is. That is, what you have to advertise is how wise you choose it that will complement your religion.
Already good at his religion, already has good morality, and how much he practices science. Because these 3 things are the basis for your religion to be truly perfect with its presence.
Therefore, be smart in choosing, make religion, knowledge, and morality as a benchmark in establishing your heart, even though you are chosen, you have the right to accept or reject it.
And remember wisely, good looks, wealth, and the "wow" appendages attached to it are just bonuses in living together.
Then know, getting married is a wife's devotion for the rest of her life, not to be when you choose only to see how physically he is, but look at her heart and religion.
Because when you choose a priest wrongly, your regret will not be temporary, but forever.
Choosing the wrong pair of regrets is not the same as regretting the wrong choice of clothes. Maybe, when you choose the size of the dress wrong, your regret is only temporary, two or three days may be enough.
But the wrong choice of priest will regret you for a lifetime, therefore don't be careless in choosing, but think wisely according to God's rules.
So what are the recommendations for choosing a partner in Islam? That is look at his religion, look at his property, look at his offspring, and see how his face is. But the most serious of these four criteria is religion.
So, when you choose to see how his faith first, then see how responsible he is in servitude to God, because that is what will make you truly happy because of His love.
Because actually treasure, appearance, and position are only happy bonuses of living together, then you should be careful in choosing.
Advertise your standard for choosing a partner, not just the dowry you are willing to, if you don't want your life to be stuck in regret that never ends.
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