Children are a precious gift

In today's world society now dictates how we should live our lives and raise our children .In this era where every we in the media looks so real and perfect .people are hypnotized to be like what they see on the media, everyone wants the child to be that ,lawyer ,doctor and engineer without realizing that every child was born into this world with special talents,interest ,their own agenda and abilities which no one can know until later part of their lives. Your children are not your children but God's children ,they only came through you but not from you ,you live with them but they don't belong to you.
Parents should allow their children to explore and find their purpose,and also guide them to decide and take the paths that is good for them,and not try to make them fulfil your interest as this would only lead to regret in adult life .As many adults today still live in bondages ,frustrations ,anger sadness because the their parents give the conditional love .In that if you don't meet your parents expectations or interest you are branded as a useless person ,low achiever and less love for you .This is the reality in many African countries ,Asia Europe and America.
Remember you have your own life to live and they also have theirs,you may try to be like them but not try to make them like you ,.Because life does not go backwards nor matches with yesterday.
Are you a parent or will be parent , what is your take on this??????
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