The young minds have the zeal whereas the old parents have the experience , the mix of the two is the best thing that can happen. Letting the kids to decide and supervising them gives a fruitful result and also, the kids learn the tricks to succeed. The calm approach of the parents to supervise the kids in their decision help the kids to understand the pros and cons and make them more attentive which builds them for a bright future. The best way to parenting is to let the kids perform and just keep your eyes on them to guide and supervise.....that what i feel..