I think sometimes, if a kid continually steps over boundaries, and knows it's the wrong thing to do, a smack would help. But I think it really depends on the kid, and what they are actually doing 'wrong'. There is a difference between discipline and abuse. I think it's best to talk and reason rather than hit, I just don't think a smack is bad all of the time.
I would ask you to try switching the variable and see if the logic still applies. What if your adult child keeps overstepping boundaries? Is it ok to smack them? What about a spouse, or a parent with dementia? Or how about, instead of a child, it was an employee or a coworker? Are these people ok to be hit? Would there be certain circumstances where it's fully appropriate to hit your boss, your grandparent, your wife, etc?
Honest question, btw. Not trolling.
Thanks!
Yeah that's a good point. I'm basically swayed to your side now