Good read.

My take on this. Orgasm is a two way traffic it will not work if other one is not participating. And based from my experience this can also be achieve with great passion and how you light up the scene. Making someone comfortable and interested in you lights up the feel of need. Me and my partner always making sure to pleasure each other in any way possible. It spices up the relationship knowing you can satisfy each other and will let you not look for someone else to do that...My point is this is important it will not only fulfill your ego knowing you have made her go to that point but also the satisfaction afterwards. IMHO