I know what you mean @jungwatercolor I often use red hair on my painted ladies, not sure why. My own hair has red tones and whenever I lighten it (which I do) the 'blonde' always comes out reddish blonde as I have warm tones even though I actually want cool tone blue/green ash blonde. I suppose we are never happy with what we have, eh? :)
Same here :) As much as I buy hair color with some ash pigment, I turn out yellow with reddish glow :) And, yes, we aren't happy , that's why we are girls hahaha.