Friendly Enemies. Na ein be the matter wey we go chook mouth inside today.
Hello, greetings everyone
Today is our second entry for the Naija Pidgin Challenge.
This post is supposed to be in Nigerian pidgin, but because it has a very important message to pass across, I'll write a part of it in English.
I'll like us to look into something very important today. Something that has cost some people their lives.
Friendly Enemies
They are friendly enemies. They give you a shoulder to lean on when you cry, but they were the ones who wore a mask to cause you those pains.
The world is filled with too many wolves disguised as sheep. They make you love them, trust them and confide in them, only for them to turn around and stab you in the back.
As a matter of fact, when you know someone is working against you, it becomes easier to intercept the person's plans against you. That is why friendly enemies are worse than the known enemies.
This post doesn't have the intention to make you get suspicious of your friends. I only want you to become more careful about life. They say experience is the best teacher, but some people never survived their awful experiences. You must not wait to have a first-hand experience yourself; learn from other people's experiences.
The most unfortunate thing is this, you may never get to know who your friendly enemies are all the days of your life. The truth is, most of them are the ones we regard as our best friends. They are usually the first to comfort us when we are going through hard times when it could be that they are actually the reason we are in such situations.
They are usually the ones mostly seen as the good guy; since they are perfect actors, they hardly have a cause to vent anger or show displeasure. They are usually vengeful, but they do it behind the mask. You might do something wrong to them knowingly or unknowingly, they don't forgive, but they'll pretend everything is cool, so they can still be close to you and get at you as much as they want.
What you should know
Understand this; the world is a wicked place. If we were not living in a wicked world, there would not be wars. People will not spend billions for atomic bomb and other sophisticated weapons used for mass destruction when there are children dying for lack food.
If the world is not a wicked place, there would be no need for racism and prejudice.
If the world is not a wicked place, then we would all have access to good food, good housing and good cloth. No one would lack. But some can only be happy when they have an excess of it and see others die in lack and want.
So don't you ever think this world is filled with friendly people. No, it is not. You can not change it either no matter how hard you try. Yet, do not allow them change you, only protect yourself from their wickedness.
Tips to help you play safe
- Be careful with friends who don't show any displeasure when you do something wrong to them.
- Learn to keep your success story to yourself.
- Let people see what you have achieved not how you are going to achieve it.
- Most importantly, TRUST NO ONE. "Et tu Brute" should not be your last statement.
This post will be seen by both the good and the bad. If you are among the good, try to protect yourself, if you are among the bad, try to change.
If you have ever been betrayed by a friend, share in comment below.
My NPC entry for today: Wetin friendly enemy don do me.
central market Kaduna. source
Well, my people I hail una again. Most of my wahala for dis life no come from known enemies. Make I go straight to the tori.
When I still dey do paid job, e get one of my colleagues like that, the guy dey close to our oga. Everytime him go dey pretend to be my friend o. In fact eh, him come one day, come tell us say our oga no dey pay us well, him say make we tell the man to increase our salary, say him go help us talk to the man.
We con mumu go do wetin him tell us make we do. The same guy go behind go tell our oga say we dey very useless, make him sack us. Well, to cut Long story short, dem sack us. But after some years, our oga wife con tell me wetin happen.
My people, trust nobody. Even for steemit here eh, friendly enemies boku everywhere. Forget all these their show for here o, try to keep your success secret make "had I known" no be the end of your story. Learn from another person mistake. As people dey share their tori, make you too dey learn.
Oya I dey wait for una entries. Make una tell us wetin friendly enemy don do una.
Make una remember to use #npc and nigeria as tag. .
Make e no dey less than 100 words.
Good luck to all of us.
@elyaque made this beautiful badge for me.
Life is blend of good enemies and bad friends. It is how life goes on. nice post @ogoowinner
Na real matter you dey so oooo... Make God just dey help person for this our life so....
Na all those pipu my Yoruba people dey call "Ota bi ore".
Your mata dey always totori my Belle. I con dey worry say when I go see you face to face, but on to this matter eh, me sef get wetin to share. If you combine friend and enemies, ego equal to frienemies. As you talk am ehn, dem boku everywhere and we go choke them comot for here. I gbadun you die. My own mata go soon Enta your record. Wait for am.
Lol! Some people want organize Enugu meet up, people wey go come go see me there.
Friendly enemies are the worst.....cause it takes grace for you to know that they are the one behind one's downfall
True. Thanks for reading.
As in ehn... Nor B lie oh! Na real mata you they talk so my sister.
I don experience am na. Thank you for reading.
abeg how i go take join abeg ..help man pikin
Nice one. Wish I could reply in pidgin, but my pidgin is not really sound.
I agree 100% with everything you just said.
There are enemies everywere, and the most painful aspect about it is that we also have plenty of them in our home which is supposed to be a place of rest.
Anytime I tell my people that I don't trust them, they would be like if I don't trust them, then who will I trust, and I never fail to reply, "no one"
By the way, before I forget, I have also experienced colleagues like that, useless people that pretend to be caring and loving... at the end of the day, na wash.
Thank you so much jare. I could relate with this article so much.
Chai! The thing too much. Brother don kill brother sef. Make we just dey careful sha. This world too gather plenty wicked people. Thanks for reading jare.
I have no enemies...only friends :) I may have some, just that I do not really notice them though. Very busy running :)
Howdy?
I disagree here. Rather you do not recognize them, but they do exist. There is no point living in denial of facts.
I'm good. Thanks for reading.
@ogoowinner, they may exist, but I am very busy to notice them. I hope I get time in the nearest future to check on them :)
I wish i could be as busy as you are not to notice my friendly enemies,because they are not worth your stress.
Do you know oga @greenrun, that ur enemies somtimes contribute to your success...dem dey kukuma dey talk about you secretly but u no know.
@setapart, why worry over things you can't change? Best to push ahead. Keep steeming.
I'm here oh
@vheobong, really? I'd have your time in 2023 :)
Lemme fass Foward then
Sweetheart I love this post, it really amazing.... this world is indeed a wicked one, I don't have much friends now cos of the betrayal I got from somone whom I called my best friend. The only thing I feel safe with now is my laptop and my phone, no friends again
It started when I had an issue with some group of pipo, my friend offered to help me in solving the problem, although I was warned by my pastor about the person I call my friend buh due to the trust I have for him I never imagined he would betray my trust... cutting the story short , my friend offered to help me by letting me stay over at his place, someone I call friend turned around I started using me( I know you won't understand ) I never knew it was his game plan since , acting like he's helping and at same time sucking the life outta me.... my dear the word friend does not exist, friend is only good in Facebook and all social media because you don't see them and you don't have any personal encounter with them.... I don't think i would ever have a best friend again 200% certain
Ogoo please folllow me back... I have been meaning to tell you that
good pipu still dey, just pray make God carry dem waka reach ur side
Hmmmm! This your story don make me catch cold. Thanks for sharing. I go follow you back.
Sorry abouth that, someone that you trusted to cause such a bad experience for you. I wonder why they wanted you sacked from a job, maybe you were better than them or something. Such stories teach me more lessons about trusting people.
I nolonger take shit from people too. Sometimes it may seem that I don't care but whenever i feel like someone could have bad intentions i give them boundaries. Unfortunately with close friends like in your case, it's always hard for us to notice.
It happened to me when a friend stole my laptop that had a project that we were supposed to present the next day. So the following day he presented and I missed out. There so many rules regarding the presentations and the first people were to be priority. After thinking and pondering about wierd situations, we found him with my laptop and ofcos he gave excuses that he forgot he had it after wanting to copy some files.
He messed me up and it taught me to never take shit from no body.
Your story and advice emphasizes beliefs about friends.
Now i just understand them more and i just give them boundaries.
We really have to be careful about life. People are not really what they pretend to be. Thanks for your comment.
You don yarn better. If I wan join this parole... How I go take join am
The rules dey here na. Just write your own story with the tag wey I say make we dey use.