Is It Love or Infactuation? see the Differenc Below
They all look alike at the beginning but soon show their true color. You need to know as early as possible what you are feeling for the opposite sex to either back out on time before you do something stupid or pursue your object of attention with vigor!
- LOVE begins with an attraction, a special feeling for someone. You like them, admire them, respect them and likes to spend time with them. You also Tend to adhere to instruction
INFATUATION begins with a strong, intense feeling for someone that focuses basically on physical attributes like her blue eyes, his well chiseled Jaw or her curvy body. It is called "falling head over heels in love" because of the whirl wind feelings that come with it. It focuses more on the physical than lasting attributes.
LUST: Begins with a strong, intense feeling with strong sexual desire.
- LOVE focuses on giving and how to make the life of this person better without seeking anything in return.
INFATUATION focuses on giving unreasonably as a bait to get "love" and a relationship in return.
LUST focuses on giving in order to get sex in return. After the sex, it focuses on taking and taking.
- LOVE waits for sex: it controls its sexual feelings till the wedding night.
INFATUATION always desire and yearn for sex.
LUST is impatient for sex. It can't wait to have sex. It asks for sex as soon as possible.
- LOVE makes sacrifices to help the other person achieve greatness.
INFATUATION can make sacrifices but it must get something in return.
LUST can also make sacrifices but it must get sex in return.
- LOVE sticks to you regardless of the problem you face.
INFATUATION runs away at the sight of problems.
LUST create problems for you and disappears into thin air!
- LOVE admires the person's total package: character, beauty, handsomeness, spirituality, weaknesses and strength.
INFATUATION only focuses on beauty/physical attraction and strengths. It despises them for their weaknesses.
LUST focuses on the body alone.