7 adults reveal things that their parents did unknowingly that had a negative impact in their life

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Children tend to absorb their parents' concern often and become traumatized, anxious all the time, and experiencing the same types of fears without even realizing it. Unwillingly parents transfer a lot of trauma into their children without knowing how it might affect them later in life. Most likely, a parent who was nervous or emotionally distant was also traumatized as a child. Therefore, the purpose here is to not hold them accountable for your shortcomings but grow out of it leaving the emotional baggage behind. Here are 6 adults who shared how their parents actions inflicted negative impact on them: Recounting that bad experience, Shuvangi says, “This one time my father forgot to pick me up from school and I kept waiting for him even as they closed the gates and they told me to call him from the principal’s office. Being the last kid to leave school in the evening was pretty traumatic as a child. I'm not gonna lie . Anyway, he had genuinely forgotten and asked me to walk back home. Safe to say he heard an earful when he came back from the office that evening from my mom. I had new found abandonment issues after that.” As a child I feel like my parents were really cautious and kept me within their comfort zones, which prevented me from trying out hobbies or sports. This is the reason why I haven't been very involved in sports or extracurricular activities. So whenever I see my friends and family enjoying or talking about activities it makes me feel a bit uneasy and regretful,” an Anonymous user told Supriya says, “My parents never told me that I’m doing great, exceptional or I’m gifted in any sphere of life. I was actually rather intelligent, but my mother would often say things like, "When your brother was in school..." to any success I had. I didn't feel particularly exceptional despite never failing at study and working in a multinational company now. Unhealthy rivalry between siblings rooted from this. Developing a healthy sense of self-worth has never come easily to me.Overprotectiveness and independence have impacted me individually. Restrictions for school trips and going out with my friends have also impacted me emotionally. When parents exhibit excessive care, imposing restrictions on the ability to explore and make decisions as an adult, it becomes challenging to take risks or make choices without seeking external support. This hinders both personal and professional growth, says Sulochana.
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