I look at it as weak. You have 6 kids. Man the fuck up.

I have 2 kids and not nearly close to the amount of money he probably had. I know money doesn't buy happiness but spend it on things with your children & family to make you happy and healthy. I live in a cramped 2 bedroom apartment and live paycheck to paycheck. It's hard but I'm happy!

Edit: now if it's foul play that's a horse of a different color.