Maybe the issue is feeling tired of having to fulfill a role of what a person with a penis or vagina is supposed to be?

It might be less society feeding it as programming, and more of an internal response examining millions of peoples personal experiences growing up that never felt like they fit in to the concepts they were once told they had to be to be accepted.

Close your eyes. How do you even know what you are until you experience living as what you are? Maybe that's the programming souls get after becomming 3d beings?

There's plenty of "feminine" men and many "masculine" females naturally.

Not to say the stereotypes didin't serve a purpose during the OLD AGE of survival, as we evolve to the world that Jesus fellow told us about "the new age" or "end of the world" some texts changed it to, as we side stepped doom.