@robertandrew. I appreciate the kind words and as I sad my friend. I feel it too. The challenge is that we are all being left to figure it out for ourselves. There needs to be serious attention paid to freaking mental issues and we have to stop trying to understand everyone and just call behavior what it is. Our trying to accommodate everyone sets a bad precedent. No one speaks out any more for fear of being labeled. As a result we let our guards down. Anyway sir keep being a great dad and keep your babies safe. All the best to you and your family and please keep up the great posts. Talk soon.