I have learned a long time ago that when you try and force something that should be natural you do more harm than good. Making friends, Making business connections, trying to get that girl or guy to like you. I find it best to just be natural. And its also far easier. If you are authentic you have less to remember. Who knows, maybe things go well for me and one day I too will be part of the #newbieresteemday. But all good things takes time. For now I am on this side of the fence...