Hey girl, I'm Oatmeal Joey Arnold, and I love what you are writing and one of my favorite keys here is in enjoying the moments, each moment, as we are in the moment, which may involve some reflection, and some empathy, sympathy, awareness, realization, connection, emotion, chemistry, chemicals, and life is full of opportunities, as in moments, and these moments changes us up and down all of the time. We can embrace the pros and cons of the moments first and we can understand the patterns in life that we are part of. Sometimes, we will feel sadness, confusion, anger, jealousy, pain, laughter, sleepiness. We can either fight unwanted emotions, feelings, or we can embrace them and accept them in the moment. We can try to remind ourselves that moments come and go, generally speaking. And we do not have to fear the moments we get. Life is short and we can enjoy each moment for so many reasons. And we can use them to our advantage as well.