All that is right on point raj808. I left my ex because i was miserable and my daughter complained about us fighting when she was three. She is four now and she is the most important thing in my world. I think the move would be beneficial for both of us. Not just so she has a happy dad but she is sooo much like me that i know she would love that life once introduced to it. I will definitely check out your posts. Im right there with you on the God/religion thing. Love God and i hate religion . I just call it my spirituality. It is the part off me that is connected to the universe and its energy. I sincerely thank you for you opinion and comments, i will return the favor. I know that isnt why you took the time to comment, but, i like your outlook