Succumbing is not defeated, but winning essentially
Conscience leads you to determine right and wrong. It is the conscience that can save you from others' negative words about you. Anger also sometimes will destroy everything you've made. Anger crushed all the beautifully spoken novel words.
From birth, you are the real winner and will always be the winner. If you lose today, rise and win tomorrow.
The easiest way to know if we fit in with the person or not is when we feel forgotten of time.