A male-female love drama cycle
John and Jane met some time ago and felt a connection, unfortunately, Jane feels she has to give John a hard time in other to be valued more. John keeps trying very hard to get Jane to even bond with him normally but she values her pride more than love.
Another couple Smith and Susan with a similar history and similar chemistry meet and both parties agree to give normalcy a shot.
Smith and Susan are doing so fine, in due time even John and Jane start to notice and want to be like them. Jane however is not willing to compromise and John has no choice, he either has to take the ration he's been given or walk away.
Love won't let him walk away, but the terms and conditions that come with the bond makes him feel Jane might never put aside the pride even for love.
John knows that even Jane wants their love to be like that of Smith and Susan, but her principles and those of Susan differ greatly.
Jane is sometimes cold and unresponsive, both in character or even at fun and passionate moments and sometimes John has to patiently sit back and listen to the tales of happiness and success between his friends and their partners and he enviously feels like luck is no longer friends with him
Comparison is not his aim, understanding is his goal, however Jane is not making things easy at all for John. Can there be fullness of such a love which exists between John and Jane, the answer might be no and that is because the actions taken will trigger different set of reactions.
The summary
Everyone (both gents and ladies) hope to someday fall in love with "the one" and finally get a taste of perfection they so desire, but do you know sometimes when we don't let love run it's course naturally, when we try to always manipulate it's input and output hoping for a personal favorable result, it sometimes end in tales of woe?
When I say personal favorable result, I mean manipulating it to suit our selfish agenda almost 100% without giving a second thought for the implication of such actions.
People don't know when you won't let love run it's true course, love won't let you run your own course. Guys value simplicity, simplicity meaning something which is allowed to run a natural course.
Someone jokingly said "it's a man's world" I rebuked that statement saying it's a woman's world actually. When asked to justify that statement, I cited some examples:
- Helen of Troy sparked a war because of beauty.
- Cleopatra brought great men to their knees because of her ability to manipulate men.
- Julia Agrippina also caused the naming of her son as Emperor through seduction
One thing the numerous people who manipulated love to suit their own comfort without regard for the other person or compromise, have in common is that it ended badly.
Love is like neurons in the brain, manipulation creates a damage to the pathway, but usually, the neurons try to reconnect and find another pathway.
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Lovely write up @ehiboss. Very typical of what happens in reality. Couples just have to accept that there's nothing like a perfect couple and learn to cope their differences and also accept that no one perfect. However we should strive for perfection
Nice one @ehiboss, this one that you have become a love expert.
I feel you sha. Na true you talk. I totally agree with you especially the part you wrote that when we don't let love run its course naturally, it would sometimes end in tales of woes.
You are right. Although this works when you love the right person. When you love the wrong person, no matter how easily you let things flow, the person will always find a way to mess it up.
Love is complicated for those who don't know its panegyrics but simple for those that know its eulogy.
You have said right my dear.
This is just it..... Sometimes you just need to let things slide at a very early stage else many many things could get outta hand
Hey Boss Ehi.
Thanks for such a write-up like this.
Most people who are guilty of manipulating the essence of love do so because of their orientation and the things they've been exposed to; coupled with the fact that it's an 'almost' inherent tendency of the human nature to wanna manipulate things in favour of oneself only. In spite of this assertion, peeps have to enlightened.
Keep up the good work of enlightenment bro...
The worst that can happen to a man/woman is to die without feeling the touch of love. God will have to ask him/her how come ?
A chemical/inorganic fertilizer can never have same potency as that of organic one. This is to depict the essence of what emerges naturally.
If love is not naturally induced, and we have to manipulate/fake emotions others to make it happen, its a matter of time when it loses it's potency.
I Love This Aspect Of Live "Love"
Kudos @ehiboss.
True love is when you realize that the other person's time is more precious this yours.
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Allow your tears and time to be precious to each other, as compatibility is very important.
Wow lovely piece, you never disappoint me with your posts
Jane is just like typical Nigeria girls. Many have lost love because of compromise. If you love someone, let them know, it won't hurt anyone at all.