I think her mother. Her mother had given birth, educated and raised her. His mother has formed most of his character. Her mother had tied her affection for a long time. Her mother had also sacrificed for her so she became successful.

Love to the wife is different from the love of the mother. A wife is present in a man's life after he becomes mature and established in life. Only a man who loves blind can be influenced by his wife. My advice in this case is, do not distinguish the love of man to his wife and his mother. They are both important people in a man's life. Both affect the attitude of a man's life. Do not make a man to choose, whether his mother or his wife? that's a very sad dilemma.