family consists of father mother and children.it may be nuclear or extended so I believe you will fall into one category.If you are asking as a father then a heck of job lies on you. To make your family proud, you need to know that you have to be useful to them. Provide all their needs at the right time. Cordinate your home and train your children in a Godly way. Show love to your wife and make her happy always. As a mother, making your family proud lies on you greatly. If your husband provide all the needs and you are not a good planner, that will be a failure, the kids needs to be neat always, even the husbands neatness lies in the hands of his wife. How well are the children appearing among their peers at home, at school and every where they go. All this counts a lot. As a child,teenager or a matured person, you must understand that making your family proud starts from within, The key is you must try as much as possible to obey your parents.There are so many children out there that have no respect for their parents.their parents cannot control them, I wonder how such family can be proud of such child or be respected by others seeing their child disrespecting them. Making your family proud is respecting all members of your family,if you are old enough to extend your hands to them, don't draw it back.be responsible. live a good life, let others see you as a responsible person..always have it at the back of your mind that good name is better than riches.work hard, do your best and see your family look up to you as a good example.