What was your most important life lesson or decision?
There are two most crucial decisions that will be very decisive history of your life, namely: 1) what profession or job you are working on and 2) with whom you marry.
Hopefully you did not wrongly decide the decision in those two aspects. Because your future is knit by these two fundamental decisions.
Let's try the two-dimensional surgical decision; so that you are absolutely accurate in your future decisions.
Decision # 1: Jobs, Careers, or Professions You Technize
Inevitably this decision will really determine the path of your life.
Indeed there are three types of professions to choose from:
Being a worker or an office employee.
Be self-employed (doctors, notaries, lawyers, designers, writers, web programmers, architects, etc.).
Run his / her own business (manufacturer, distributor, agent, reseller, dropshipper).
I do not know what your options are. But whatever your choice, if you can tekuni occupations or professions that match your interests and areas of expertise.
Life may be a little useless if for over 20 years we work in a field that we might not like so much.
Our life history may be a little persecuted if for over 20 years we pursue a field of work that never triggers our motivation, passion and adrenaline.
Love what you do. Do what you love. Once a saying goes. Maybe life will be a bit more thrilling if we can capture that proverb in the career path that we are carving.
Sometimes people are wrong to decide where to work. Living a career in a place that never gives a chance to grow may be a "decision blunder".
Working for years without a clear future direction may be an expensive "opportunity lost"; and this decision will have a massive impact on the history of our lives.
But on the other hand, in the spirit of blazing a letter resign for the sake of starting your own business may also not a smart decision. Many people are just bankrupt and chased debts because of such a heroic pitched decisions.
Decision making is a potentially complex process: it should not only rely on intuition, but it should also be data-based and careful calculation.
I hope your decision in this first dimension is accurate. If you do not think about it, think about what other decision to take.
Your life may be decades away. There is still a chance to make historical decisions in the history of your life.
Decision # 2: With Whom You Are Married
I'm not a wedding expert, so maybe not the right person to give this advice.