Marriage has no joy and celibacy has no pleasure. The truth is going for marriage with only love is really not enough without the basic things such as those you have mentioned above to keep the marriage progressing. Do people truly love again ? Nowadays, compatibility is not matters before you full in love it is true that you get to know well things about the person you are going out with which determines whether you two are for each other. Love only won't be enough to keep the marriage going. It takes a lot more than that, don't just be blindfolded by love without using your head and don't be pushing too much or else you will find yourself to blame. Remember they can help you marry a wife but they won't help you feed her which is why you must be ready.