Appreciate Yourself
What is my worth?
Take your time, digest the question and answer it to yourself. Worth in this context is not about material possession, It is how you feel about yourself, that which you think of yourself.
Do you see yourself as a Success or Failure?
Do you see yourself as a Victor or a Loser?
We should all know that our thoughts and believes about ourselves contributes to the kind of person we are. We live what we think and our thought goes a long way in our life. What we actually think of ourselves is very important to our well being or to achieving our goals. You can't see yourself as a future and think you can actually be successful because the moment you feel or think you are a failure you quit trying to be a success, you feel why run when you already have a winner.
This feeling of low self esteem might be as a result of previous occurrence in one's life probably you've had some experience which made you feel you can't make something good out of your life, you feel you will always be a loser but i tell you; you will continue to be a loser if you don't see your self as a victor, you will continue to be s failure if you don't see yourself as a success.
"How far you go in life is a function of how far you can see".
The power to do great things in lifebis immensely dependent on your sight and definition of yourself.
Another thing you should note is that never allow people to give you a definition about yourself. If anyone will say anything to you, it should come as a compliment i.e. after you must have given yourself a definition.
Like I said in my last post, that you should never allow anyone to instill fear in you. If you fail to carry yourself with the right mindset, people will tell you things that you ought not to listen to and may dismay you or give you reasons to look down on yourself.
A friend of mine said "If I look down, it means I am admiring my footware". The way you present yourself to people is the way they will see yoy. If you see yourself as being cheap, a lot of people will take you for granted. And you will discover that they will make you do for them what you never thought you could do for yourself. So never let anyone take advantage of you and always keep your head high.
Hence, my friend:
Define who you are
Appreciate yourself
Ignore those that wants to look down on you.
Say positive things to yourself